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☰一、大气是一个人的气质或气度；是一个人内心世界的一种外观表现；是一个人综合素质对外散发的一种无形的力量。大气不是从小生来的，而是经历生活慢慢培养出来的浩然之气；是一个人对社会、对生活所持有态度的一种意识；是人性的自然流露，装是装不出来的。Atmosphere is a person's temperament or temperament; is a person's inner world of an appearance; is a person's comprehensive quality of external dissemination of an invisible force. Atmosphere is not born at an early age, but is a magnificent spirit cultivated slowly through life; it is a person's awareness of the attitude towards society and life; it is the natural expression of human nature, which can not be pretended.
二、人生就是一个苏醒的过程，把快乐装在心里，把温暖妥帖收藏，在心中开一扇睛窗，种满花朵和阳光，用最美的心情过最好的生活，即便是风尘仆仆，岁月也会溢满暖意，美好也会如约而至！Life is a process of awakening. Keep happiness in your heart, keep warmth in your collection, open a window in your heart, plant flowers and sunshine, and live the best life with the most beautiful mood. Even if you are a dusty servant, the years will be full of warmth, and the good will come as promised.
三、原来，爱一个人，由人由天，就是由不得自己。那些属于生命里美丽的瞬间，当时并不觉得珍奇，可当我回头却发现，原来最灿烂的一刻早已过去。我再没有遇到一个人，像他一样爱我如自己的生命。你们两人在一处，心却在另一处，在神的驱逐下，永不停息的流浪。原来一切早已注定我认了命，反正怎么过，都是一生。Originally, love a person, by the sky, is by no means their own. Those beautiful moments in life, at that time did not feel strange, but when I look back, I find that the original most brilliant moment has long passed. I have never met anyone who loves me as his own life. You two are in one place, but your heart is in another place, and you will never stop wandering under the banishment of God. Originally everything had been destined for me to admit my destiny. Anyway, it was a lifetime.
四、没人在乎你怎样在深夜痛哭，也没人在乎你辗转反侧的要熬几个秋。外人只看结果，自己独撑过程。等我们都明白了这个道理，便不会再在人前矫情，四处诉说以求宽慰。Nobody cares how you cry in the middle of the night, or how many autumns you toss and turn. Outsiders only look at the results and support the process by themselves. When we all understand this truth, we will no longer pretend to be in front of others and talk about it everywhere for comfort.
五、又是一个凌晨了，此刻的你是在睡梦中还是在站岗呢，那你有没有想我？ 我还在等你，你知道吗？别老想着“以后还来得及”，有一天你会发现，有些人，有些事，真的会来不及。It's morning again. Are you sleeping or standing on guard now? Do you miss me? I'm still waiting for you, you know? Don't dwell on "it's too late in the future." One day you will find that some people, some things, really will be too late.
六、到了现在这个年纪，谁都不想再取悦了，跟谁在一起舒服就和谁在一起，包括朋友也是，累了就躲远一点。宁可孤独，也不违心，宁可抱憾，也不将就。At this age, nobody wants to please anymore. When you are comfortable with someone, you can stay away from them, including your friends. I would rather be lonely than disobey my heart. I would rather regret than settle down.
七、走过的街角，已经失去了往日的繁华，现实的无助，只能让过往的点滴变成回忆，用回忆麻痹自己，让生活左右自己，任凭人生风雨的摆动，而我，却连抵抗的欲望都没有。Walking through the corner, has lost the past prosperity, the reality of helplessness, can only let the past bits into memories, paralyze themselves with memories, let life around themselves, despite the swing of life storms, but I do not even have the desire to resist.
八、我们的生活有太多无奈，我们无法改变，也无力改变，更糟的是，我们失去了改变的想法。你的回忆里，总有一段最难释怀的时光，却没有任何人读懂你自己。There are so many helplessness in our life that we can't change or change. What's worse, we have lost the idea of change. In your memory, there is always the most difficult time to let go, but no one understands you.
九、勇敢的做自己，不要为任何人而改变。如果他们不能接受最差的你，也不配拥有最好的你。我想你了，却不能对你说，就像开满梨花的树上，永远不可能结出苹果。我想你了，却不能对你说，就像高挂天边的彩虹，永远无人能够触摸。Be yourself bravely and don't change for anyone. If they can't accept the worst of you, they don't deserve the best of you. I miss you, but I can't tell you, like a tree full of pear blossoms, it can never produce apples. I miss you, but I can't tell you, just like a rainbow hanging high above the horizon, no one can touch it forever.
十、只有对自己的人生充满自信，才能在自信里找到自强，自强中彰显自立，自立成就自我，才会在自我中不断演绎人生的精彩。Only when you are confident in your life, can you find self-reliance in self-reliance, show self-reliance in self-reliance, achieve self-reliance, and constantly deduce the brilliance of life in self-reliance.
十一、风，遗忘了夕阳的归时，仍忘情地吹着不知 疲倦的黄昏。天边的晚霞映红了你的脸，你正用洞穿深夏的双眼望着天边的云霞；月明风清，流水泠泠，萤舞蛙鸣。在六月的夜里，为你泼墨缱绻一道小令，纪念相逢。为你拨弦奏一曲琴筝，唯美的音符化为永恒。Wind, forgetting the return of sunset, still blowing tireless evening. The sunset glow on the horizon reflects your face red, you are looking at the clouds on the horizon with your eyes piercing through the deep summer; the moon is bright and the wind is clear, the water is cold and the fluttering frogs are singing. On the night of June, splash ink on a small decree for you to commemorate the meeting. Play a zither for you, the beautiful notes become eternal.
十二、女人，失去了魅力会觉得男人花心！男人，没有了实力才觉得女人现实！所以，你必须明白一件事：事业是男人的姿色，姿色是女人的事业。女人一定要爱自己，也要经济够独立！做一个完美精致的女人。别说东西贵，这个世界，你最贵！Women, if they lose their charm, they will feel men's love! Men, without strength, think women are realistic! So, you have to understand one thing: career is a man's beauty, and beauty is a woman's career. Women must love themselves and be financially independent! Be a perfect and delicate woman. Don't say things are expensive, you are the most expensive in the world!
十三、谁若从滚滚向前的命运之车上掉下来，谁就再也赶不上它。生命中有你;生命中的征程是否有你;如果没有,生命中为何有你，何必有你？Anyone who falls from the car of fate rolling forward will never catch up with it. There is you in life; whether there is you in the journey of life; if not, why have you in life, why have you
十四、不要羡慕别人比你成熟。那是因为，一路走来，他们遇见的坏人比你多。经历了生活的跌宕起伏，看过了生命的凡来尘往，愿我们每个人都能以向日葵的精神，面朝阳光，追逐着光明，不去怨，不去恨，默默生长，默默成长，每一个日升月落的日子，都给世界，给自己一个微笑。Don't envy others more mature than you. That's because, along the way, they met more bad people than you. Having experienced the ups and downs of life, and seen all the comings and downs of life, I hope that each of us can, in the spirit of sunflower, face the sunshine, pursue the light, not to complain, not to hate, grow silently, grow silently, give the world a smile on every sunrise and sunset day.
十五、男人们竭尽全力想要飞黄腾达，其目的归根结底就是想高高在上，博得女人的倾慕之心。男人们在激烈的生存竞争中力图取胜，为的不就是美色和贪欲吗？Men try their best to make a great success. The ultimate goal is to win the admiration of women from above. Is it not beauty and greed that men strive to win in the fierce competition for survival?
十六、爱情啊，从来不是我们预期的那个样子，却是我们人生不可或缺的东西。曾经害怕从你的嘴里听到分手两个字，因为我爱你，你爱不爱我我不知道，但是我在努力的让你爱上我。Love, it's never what we expected, but it's an indispensable part of our life. I used to be afraid to hear the word "break up" from your mouth, because I love you, do you love me or not, I don't know, but I'm trying to make you fall in love with me.
十七、有时候你以为天塌下来了，其实是自己站歪了。留在彼此的好友名单里却不再说一句话，这是我们最后的默契。其实，我想要的很简单，在这个熟悉又很陌生的城市里，能有一份家的温暖。人生中，最温馨的时刻，莫过于有家人，亲朋好友的陪伴，有家便有暖。这个世界的问题是，笨蛋都充满了自信，而聪明人反而总是怀疑自己。Sometimes you think the sky has fallen down, but you stand askew. It's our last tacit understanding to stay on each other's list of friends and not say a word. In fact, I want very simple, in this familiar and very strange city, can have a warm home. In life, the warmest moment is to have family members, friends and relatives accompanied by home will be warm. The problem with the world is that fools are full of self-confidence, while smart people are always suspicious of themselves.
十八、我想过做个不走近岁月的世界，孤独的微笑，孤单的走路，看着大人的冷眼，错误自己的付出，不用思考，不用面对当下的很多，不费力气的吃喝穿衣，不用走太多的路，可是时间走了，锁走了我人生的不知，带来了心中的得知，分得很清楚，擦去的很快，有了落痕，有了追忆，断去的断去，离开的离开，看见的远了，等不来的却很近了。I thought about being a world not approaching the years, a lonely smile, a lonely walk, looking at adults'cold eyes, making mistakes in their own efforts, not thinking, not facing the current many, not trying to eat, drink and dress, not walking too much, but time has gone, locked away my life's ignorance, brought the heart to know, clearly divided, erased quickly, with Falling marks, with memories, broken off, leaving, see far away, but can not wait for it is very close.
十九、“如约而至”是个多么美好的词，等的辛苦，却从不辜负。价值产生信心，信心产生热忱，而热忱则征服世界。不是我不联系你，而是你给我的感觉像是我在打扰你。 我要有能做我自己的自由，和敢做我自己的胆量。——林语堂《我的愿望》What a beautiful word "come as you promised", waiting for the hard work, but never live up to it. Value produces confidence, confidence produces enthusiasm, and enthusiasm conquers the world. It's not that I don't contact you, but that you give me the feeling that I'm bothering you. I want to have the freedom to be myself and the courage to be myself. —— Lin Yutang's "My Wish"
二十、十年前，你周围的人会根据你父母的收入对待你。十年后，你周围的人会根据你的收入对待你的父母和你的孩子！这就是人性和人生，除了努力别无选择。人一辈子，你得信这一条：留得住的不需用力，留不住的不需费力。来去随缘，强求不得。Ten years ago, people around you would treat you according to your parents'income. Ten years later, people around you will treat your parents and your children according to your income! This is human nature and life. There is no choice but to work hard. Throughout your life, you have to believe this rule: you don't have to work hard to keep it, you don't have to work hard to keep it. Come and go as you please, but you can't force it.
二十一、世上最心痛的距离，不是你不懂我的悲哀，不明白我的孤寂，而是我即使痛彻心脾，却不能放声哭泣！时间决定你会在生命中遇见谁，你的心决定你想要谁出现在你的生命里，而你的行为决定最后谁能留下。The most painful distance in the world is not that you don't understand my sorrow and my loneliness, but that I can't cry even though I'm in pain. Time decides who you will meet in your life, your heart decides who you want to appear in your life, and your actions decide who will stay in the end.
